Hi everyone,
I wanted to make my first post. Thanks Troy, love this space to share about relationships. A relationship can make you go through so many emotions. It's so amazing when you and your partner are in sync but when things go out of sync, my whole world can flip upside down.
I recently had a disagreement with my boyfriend and I learned that trust is the most important thing you can have in a relationship as well as communication and compromise.
The bottom line is to be honest with your feelings, exactly what hurts.
I really agree with unconditional love is the best gift you can give a person. Like the love between a parent and child. They may do something you disagree with but at the end of the day, you can still forgive them, because you love them. When you find that you and your partner share that unconditional love - you have found your match.
-Stefanie
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NIce! I love the concept and I have to totally agree. Love is one thing but when it's unconditional it's amazing through the ups and the downs. I had a relationship before that was not unconditional on either side and it was terrible because of the lies I felt I HAD to tell and the lies she felt she HAD to tell...when its all out there its so much easier. =-) thanks for sharing Stef, you always have good stuff to say looking forward to more.
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I never saw it that way, i always thought that unconditional love was only between a parent and a child. especially since i never had that in a relationship. I, like Troy felt that i had to lie so i didnt have to fight. The only thing that confused me was that everytime we fought, at the end he felt bad and try to make things better like making me smile and make me forgeet about what we fought about. that part felt amazing because i thought heere is a man that no matter waht makes me feel special, the bad part about it was that although we never were mad for more than hours, we nver resolved the problem! he never like to talk about it and resolve it.. so I guess that wasnt unconditional love.. How differnet relationships can be! ... thanks stef for sharing!
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