New Year

Happy Wednesday night! We half way through the week!

I was thinking about how fast the year has come and gone already! It's almost Thanksgiving! Wow!
So that being said I know there are some of us who have been having a rough 09' and probably are just like "I am ready for 2010 to be here". I can only say this. It's almost over and a new year is going to be here soon but make the best out of what you have left. No time is bad time. Make the best out of what you have in your hands and learn what you can from your experiences. Things find a way to get better and only time will tell what will come of it.

I have 1 or 2 friends that are pretty close to me who are confused about their relationships and what will come out of it by next year. So want to hear wedding bells and some want out! To the one's who want I can only advise you to be patient and make sure that is what you want and if that is something you have already done don't be scared to make an exit. It's always hard to leave a comfortable situation even if it's a bad one BUT it is normally what is needed even if it's for a moment or a few weeks just to clear your head and re-evaluate things. I like to call that a timeout for all my laker fans =)

For those who want to hear wedding bells I can tell you from a man's perspective you have to wait and let the man propose. Normally a man will make you wait and wait and make the surprise that much sweeter but when he is pushed into it the surprise get's killed in a sense. Just let it happen as it should and will. Don't force anything because you might not like what you get from a forced situation. There is always a possibility to be sooo happy until it happens then you feel silly and or stuck.

On the flip side of that some men need a little motivation in which I normally deal with in a case to case format. So if you fall into that category or just have a general question shoot me an e mail and I will gladly respond. =)

Happy New Year in advance

Make the best of this one with what is left and swing positive energy and actions into the new one to get a great start.

Troy R.